Forgive and forget, is that how it works?
Some say you have to forget, or you're not really forgiving. No point in burying the hatchet, if you're going to make a map to where the hatchet is, just in case you need it again.
Some say you can forgive, but don't ever forget. You can't forget it. They'll do it again. You can't move on. You can't see anything but that thing, over and over and over. So have you forgiven?
How do you move past the anger? How do you move past the feeling sorry for yourself? How to do you move the fuck on?